vyos.util: extend process_named_running() signature with cmdline

process_named_running() was introduced in commit 16b2fc8fc4ca ("dns-forwarding:
T2298: fix path to control file") and thus remained more or less unchanged.

Smoketests use process_named_running() heavily and might spawn multiple
processes with the same name but ifferent options (e.g. dhcp6c or dhclient) and
it was yet not possible to properly filter on the "real-deal" like the process
bound to a given interface.

One can now optionally specify a string that is searched inside the command
line argument list of the process.

Example:

process_named_running('dhcp6c', 'veth0')

['/usr/sbin/dhcp6c', '-D', '-k', '/run/dhcp6c/dhcp6c.veth0.sock', '-c',
'/run/dhcp6c/dhcp6c.veth0.conf', '-p', '/run/dhcp6c/dhcp6c.veth0.pid', 'veth0']
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process_named_running('dhcp6c', 'veth1')

['/usr/sbin/dhcp6c', '-D', '-k', '/run/dhcp6c/dhcp6c.veth1.sock', '-c',
'/run/dhcp6c/dhcp6c.veth1.conf', '-p', '/run/dhcp6c/dhcp6c.veth1.pid', 'veth1']
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Where the debug list returned is the commandline searched.

(cherry picked from commit 9c677c81be6a6e62958c73b038c2a36f1f629108)