Update package and adjust changed defaults in behavior for VyOS
### Encountered issues so far
* https://github.com/FRRouting/frr/issues/16935 (fixed)
* https://github.com/FRRouting/frr/issues/16951
* https://github.com/FRRouting/frr/issues/17011
* https://github.com/FRRouting/frr/issues/17463
* https://github.com/FRRouting/frr/issues/17472